Change is Good

Last night Gio & I had our first date night! We actually shared it with Tim, someone Gio works with. It was a fun night at the Pacers game (they won) and then drinks and cigars at Nicky Blaines. While there Gio & I got the most awsome compliment I feel like a couple could get! As we all sat in Nicky Blaines Tim told us how much of a great couple we are, how we seem truly happy, and that we are so laid back, so much the same, but so different, how he thought we were just perfect for each other!! Honestly, it put the biggest smile on my face for the rest of the evening :) He also told me how highly Gio speaks of me at work, how he never says anything negative about me! Made my heart melt. It made feel so special to know that the person I chose to spend the rest of my life with, he really is the most amazing man on the planet!

As Gio & I drove home last night, we began talking about how great of a compliment we got, and how much of a good time we had at the night club. Which moved to the conversation of how much we've changed, how are preferences of fun have changed, how we've grown into being adults. We talked about how instead of going to the bar to get wasted or partying at the house to get smashed, having a hangover the next morning, and how we didn't care what we put in our bodies or how we took care of it. Now instead of going bar hoping, we like to go to the night club and have only one or two drinks, and enjoy our beverage, our time, the surrounding, and the memories :) Now instead of fast food, and eating on the "fly" we plan out our healthy meals, and like to go to the gym. We discussed other topics of our changing and when it came down to it, we both feel pleased about how we've grown, both individually and as a couple. We decided our early 20's life is passed and that necessarily the changes weren't a bad thing. We understand that it was fun while it lasted but all people need to grow up at some point in their lives, but still need to have fun just in different ways :) We also realize and understand that we are going to continue to grow and change, and it's just fine, it just shows how much we've matured :)

boy, what a sweet compliment was given and the deep conversation it brought! lol

There is nothing wrong with change,

If it is in the right direction.

~Winston Churchill